That is a question that appears to be quite popular when you are in the Tantric business. I know I have received many openers like the title of this blog post. As a provider of Tantric therapy in Bundaberg, Hervey Bay and Brisbane, I often get asked what are the differences between a sensual or erotic massage with a happy ending and Tantric bodywork.
Of course, whilst some people do initially search for an erotic happy ending massage, they often stumble upon many articles and stories about Tantric massage or Tantric bodywork, specifically yoni massage for women and lingam massage for men, and even sessions for couples.
Naturally, every practitioner, bodyworker, or therapist will have a unique response to this type of question and that is perfectly fine.
An Erotic Happy Ending Massage
The act of a massage solely to bring a person to orgasm is what an erotic massage with a happy ending is all about. The proverbial "happy ending" is the orgasm at the end.
The relaxation following a stimulating erotic massage has plenty to do with the release of tension felt in much the same way people feel blissful and on a high following sexual intercourse.
However, an erotic massage experience extends the aura of arousal until the client feels content with euphoria and relaxation throughout all of their body's nerve endings and muscles.
The happy ending massage uses methods that help the client to be fully relaxed and sexually excited in tandem, followed by sexual release, often as quickly as possible. The erotic happy-ending massage may include a touch of the client's genital area with hands, body, or, on some occasions, the mouth. The giver of an erotic massage is often naked.
The erotic happy ending massage experience is, essentially, a sexually stimulating massage. It is not tantric and it has little to do with connecting a client with their sexual energy, overcoming sexual trauma, or sharing knowledge on how to become multi-orgasmic.
A Tantric Massage With Yoni / Lingam Bodywork
Tantric massage and bodywork, whether given to a woman or a man, opens the door to you connecting deeper with yourself, and your sexual being, and truly feel your entire body both inside and out.
An authentic Tantric experience will start you down a path that begins with you discovering the source of your inner sexual potential, power, and energy. Some people even say that once they have been truly connected with themselves that they also discover a new meaning to their lives on a deeper and more profound level.
With proper teaching, as well as commitment and an open mind, all women and men have the potential to become multi-orgasmic, which means that they will be able to have multiple orgasms without losing sexual desire, sexual energy, or sexual arousal through ejaculation or orgasm.
It is sad to think that we live in a society that has forgotten that we are all capable of this. In most of our sex education – and especially in pornography – both women and men are taught that orgasm is the goal and that man ejaculating is the most important thing in sex.
The benefits of Tantric bodywork beyond sexual pleasure
Tantra and Tantric therapies seek to teach women and men how to master their sexual energy in ways that they can utilize to fuel and power their bodies, their health, and their vitality. Once a person has learned how to become multi-orgasmic and experience a true full-body orgasm, they will come to realize their capacity to be a fully connected and divine lover.
Either through yoni or lingam bodywork, a true Tantric experience can help you to understand and control your body's sexual energy, giving you confidence, security, and feelings of heightened bliss that will trickle down into not only your sensual and erotic life but also your love life, your relationships, and your work life.
A genuine Tantric experience: no goals, no judgement, no expectations
A genuine Tantric bodywork experience is centred on there being no goals and no expectations. There is no judgement and no feelings of imperfection or inferiority. All that is required is that you are open in both your mind and senses and you are present in the moment. You are required to give nothing back.
What this means is that you have the opportunity to do nothing but feel your true self as you are in the present moment, rather than having to think, perform or act in a way to please or satisfy another person.
A Tantric massage and bodywork session is a unique opportunity to liberate yourself from the idea of the sexual role/s you have to play or what you are expected to provide or how you should perform.
A Tantric experience is a wonderful opportunity for you to take a journey away from who you are at work, from your family role, and away from your past sexual encounters. It is an opportunity to put aside the past and seize the moment to experience pure being, energy, sensation, and inner peace in a way that renews and invigorates your sexual being, opening you up to more clarity, power, and love.
Unlike a happy ending or erotic massage, an authentic Tantric massage or bodywork session does not contain sexual acts, it is not sexual foreplay and the giver is always clothed.
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The information contained above is provided for entertainment purposes only. The contents of this article are not intended to amount to advice on your personal situation and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article. The Writer and Shoshin Therapies disclaim all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article.
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