Romantic energy between partners expresses itself in two distinct styles of balance: yin and yang, or feminine energy and masculine energy. A romantic and intimate relationship will flourish and succeed over the long term when connecting a yin (feminine) energy person with a yang (masculine) energy person. This combination has nothing to do with men, women, gender identity, sexual orientation, fluidity, anatomy, or politics, it is about energy itself. The exchange of energy functions every bit as well for same-gender couples as it does for heterosexual couples.
How Opposing Energies Impact Relationship Health and Vitality
Over time - notably beyond the honeymoon period - an intimate relationship will be less likely to prosper as well if two feminine-energy people or two masculine-energy people get together.
When two feminine energy people get together, the affection and passion will often dissolve, and the partners will be left wondering why they don't feel the proverbial love spark anymore. When two masculine energy people, there will most likely be power struggles and efforts to establish dominance and hierarchy.
Ultimately, this too will lead to the partners growing apart and falling out of love.
Are you feminine energy or masculine energy? Highlighting and accentuating one of these inner energies could make all the difference when it comes to the quality and longevity of your romantic relationship.
This should come as no surprise to anyone who pays attention to the delicate balances in nature. A tree takes in carbon dioxide and oxygen is exhaled into the world. People, on the other hand, do the exact opposite. Even blood has an alkaline-acid equilibrium. There is merit to the saying that opposites attract.
Understanding Yin and Yang in Romantic Relationships
Feminine and masculine – yin and yang – energies are the union of opposites. In relationships this union works much like a tree does with its substitution of carbon dioxide for oxygen. The masculine energy partner offers their masculine in exchange for the feminine, and the feminine energy partner welcomes the masculine energy and returns their feminine energy.
Yes, it is true we all hold both feminine and masculine energetic qualities that influence and shape how we act, feel, think, sense, respond, and initiate. But for most of us, one style of energy will direct us to a far greater extent than the other.
The Importance of Energy Balance in Long-Term Relationships
This means that when a person with slightly more masculine energy unites with a person who has slightly more feminine energy, the outcome tends to be one of romantic and intimate compatibility. It is couples who have this distinctive balance of energies who are still madly in love and having lots of passionate sex 20 to 30 years after they became a couple.
Those couples with opposing energies are likely to have better overall health, vitality, and mental clarity, and do better money-wise because they deeply understand each other.
It is a union such as this that produces a synergy that is often deficient in other relationship types.
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