We have all heard of the beautiful spiritual relationship story: two people on the same path, loving and supporting each other in their journey towards realization. But what if one partner discovers spirituality on their own while already in a relationship? Can the relationship still work?
Challenges of One-Path Partnership in Spirituality
It is a common scenario, especially in the world of Tantra, where there’s a lot of emphasis on sexuality. Often, the woman catches on first and introduces the practice to her male partner. But what if the partner just doesn’t feel the calling?
The good news is, yes, it is possible for the relationship to work if the love between the two is strong. However, it can pose some complications and challenges for both partners.
Here are some tips for keeping the relationship healthy while continuing to grow spiritually.
1. Don’t push.
It is important not to push the other person into spirituality. When you’ve experienced the transformative power of spiritual practice, it is only natural to want to share it with those closest to you. But you can never force another person to grow spiritually; it has to come from within. Pressure will only create resistance and tension in the relationship. Remember that everyone has their own path and is evolving in their own way.
2. Focus on your own practice.
Keep practising, even if your partner isn’t with you. Your practice is always your own, no matter what external factors are present or absent. It will allow you to relate to your partner without expectations and to see them as a teacher. Being strong in your own practice, you’ll have a spiritual relationship whether or not your partner knows it.
3. Find your spiritual community.
Having a like-minded community is essential, especially in a materialistic culture where you are swimming against the tide. Ideally, you and your partner can form a community of two. If not, find your community of like-minded souls outside of the relationship. Join a community, attend meditation groups or yoga classes, or connect with others online.
4. Lead by example.
The best way to teach someone about spirituality is not to teach or nag at all, but to live. Show your partner the benefits of your practice by living them. When they see the transformation in you, they may get curious and ask about your practice.
5. Knowing when to grow together and when to let go.
Love is always the most important factor, but it is just as important to be aware that the dynamic of your relationship can change when one partner becomes serious about their spiritual practice and the other is not interested. If the relationship becomes an obstacle to your spiritual growth, sometimes the wisest and most compassionate choice is to let it go.
A relationship can still work when only one partner is on a spiritual path. It takes patience, compassion, and understanding, but with these tips, you can maintain a healthy relationship while continuing to grow spiritually.
Sources:
Can a Relationship Work If Only One Partner is on a Spiritual Path? (https://aumtantrayoga.com/relationship-on-a-spiritual-path/)
What to do if my Partner is not on the Spiritual Path? (https://www.yogitimes.com/article/what-to-do-if-my-partner-is-not-on-the-spiritual-path-relationships-communication)
Can a Relationship Survive When One Partner Isn’t Spiritual? (https://lonerwolf.com/can-relationship-survive-partner-isnt-spiritual/)
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